7 Tips to Enter Your Soft Life Era While Still Working

Let me take you on a little journey—my journey—from being a hyper-productive, burnt-out girl to a soft, girly life. You know, that life where you’re not stressing, not rushing, and you’re just floating through your days, feeling light and free.

Let me tell you, this transformation didn’t happen overnight. I used to be that girl who was always hustling, working 24/7, and constantly chasing the next goal.

But here I am now, more relaxed and happier; believe it or not, I’m earning more.

How did I do it? I embraced my feminine energy and stopped forcing things. It’s that simple. Now, I want to share my best tips with you so you, too, can enter your soft life era, even while working.

My Best 6 Tips to Enter Your Soft Life Era

1. Don’t Rush Through Your Tasks

You know that feeling when you’re driving, and you think if you just go a little faster, you’ll get to your destination quicker? Well, life is kind of like that. We’re all speeding through our tasks, thinking that rushing will help us get more done.

But here’s the truth—it really doesn’t.

Sure, you might save a few minutes here and there, but at what cost?

You’re stressed out, not enjoying the process, and, honestly, probably not doing your best work.

Just like driving too fast can be dangerous, rushing through life can rob you of the joy in your everyday tasks.

So, slow down, take your time, and enjoy the process. You’ll find that not only will you be more relaxed, but you might even be more efficient in the long run.

2. Do Things More Slowly

This one ties directly into the first point. When you start to slow down consciously, something magical happens—you start to be more present in the moment. And being in the moment is where the real joy lives.

When you’re not racing through your day, you start to notice the little things—the warmth of your coffee cup, the sound of birds outside your window, the way sunlight dances on your desk. These small moments are what life is all about. They’re what make us happiest.

And guess what?

You’re much more likely to get into that elusive flow state when you’re in the moment.

You know, where things just start to click, and time seems to fly by because you’re so engrossed in what you’re doing.

Plus, you’re automatically stepping into your feminine energy, flowing through your tasks rather than rushing through them. Trust me, even the hard stuff becomes easier when you slow down.

3. Let Go

Now, this one was a game-changer for me. Letting go. It sounds so simple, but it can be one of the hardest things to do.

We hold on to things, people, and environments that aren’t good for us because we’re scared of what will happen if we let them go. The fear of the unknown can be paralyzing.

But here’s the thing—once you start letting go of what doesn’t serve you, you create space for what does.

It’s like clearing out the clutter in your mind, heart, and life. You start to feel lighter, freer, and, yes, softer because you’re no longer weighed down by negativity or stress. You’re consciously choosing what kind of energy you want around you, and that’s incredibly powerful.

4. If It’s Not a “F*ck Yes,” It’s a No

This rule right here? It changed my life. Seriously, if you take away one thing from this post, let it be this: If it’s not a “f*ck yes,” it’s a no.

Living by this principle has allowed me to curate my life in a way that feels completely aligned with who I am and what I want. If something doesn’t make me feel like jumping up and down with excitement, it’s a no.

Simple as that.

For example, I don’t buy anything unless it’s an “OMG yes.” I won’t go on a date unless it feels like a “yessss!” And if an opportunity comes my way and it doesn’t feel right, I pass on it. I don’t settle for anything that feels moderately good because that usually means it also feels moderately bad.

I choose to believe that I deserve the best, and I go after it. Everything else? I let it go and trust that what’s meant for me will find its way to me.

This approach has made me more aware of my time, money, and most importantly, myself. I’ve never felt so free and exuberant.

5. Pursue Hobbies

Remember when you were a kid and you did things just for fun? No pressure, no expectations, just pure joy? Somewhere along the way, we tend to lose that as we grow up. We get so caught up in the grind—working, maintaining relationships, staying fit—that we forget to do things just because they make us happy.

Well, I’ve had enough of it. I rediscovered my hobbies, which have made a huge difference in my life. For me, it’s painting, especially mandala painting, journaling, and writing. These activities don’t earn me any money, but they fill my soul in a way that nothing else does.

Now, I look forward to these moments every day. They add a sprinkle of joy even to the hardest days. And let me tell you, romanticizing your life—even the complex parts—can transform your entire outlook.

So, find a hobby that makes you happy, something you do just for yourself. Trust me, it’ll make a big difference.

6. Delete or Reduce Social Media

This last tip might sound a bit radical, but stick with me. A few weeks ago, I deleted social media. Yep, I said goodbye to TikTok, Twitter, and Instagram. And wow, the difference it has made in my life is astounding.

First, I have so much more time—time that I now fill with activities that actually bring me joy—like the hobbies I mentioned earlier—rather than mindlessly scrolling through other people’s lives. But beyond that, I’ve stopped comparing myself to others. I no longer feel the pressure to do things just to post them online.

And you know what? It feels amazing.

Living a soft life means being more present with yourself. But if every little break you get is spent scrolling through your feed, you’re never really with yourself. You’re always somewhere else, wrapped up in someone else’s story.

Since deleting social media, I’ve found myself more in the moment, enjoying life as it happens. I’ll look outside, paint a little, or just sit with my thoughts. And that, my friends, is worth so much more than any number of likes or followers.

My Final Words to You

So, angel, there you have it—my best tips for entering your soft life era while still working. It’s about slowing down, letting go, and prioritizing what truly makes you happy. It’s about being present in the moment, pursuing hobbies just for fun, and stepping away from the constant noise of social media.

This journey has transformed my life, and I hope these tips will help you too. Remember, it’s not about doing everything perfectly or changing your life overnight. It’s about tiny, intentional shifts that bring you closer to the life you want to live.

So go on, and start living your soft life. You deserve it.

And don’t forget—if it’s not a “f*ck yes,” it’s a no.